He doesn’t want to commit? Here is 8 psychological tricks to get him to commit to a serious relationship without pressure !
Sometimes all a man really needs is a nudge in the right direction. If you’re having trouble convincing your man to commit, you have nothing to worry about. In any case, not for the moment… Obviously, you want to be in a relationship with a man who WANTS to be with you, someone who is ready to invest himself in order to make the romantic relationship work. However, what if you feel like your partner isn’t ready for it? Does that mean you have to passively wait for him to make a serious commitment to you? Or, should you let go completely and look for a man who isn’t afraid of commitment? Well, you can do either. But there is also a third option. You can choose to take things is hands and push him to get serious with you.
Attention ! You can’t FORCE a man to invest or commit if he’s completely against it. On the other hand, if you know he loves you but something is holding him back (fear?), you can try to manipulate the situation to your advantage. So, if you are truly in love with your partner and you firmly believe that he loves you too, you can use the following techniques to “nicely” get him to commit.
–A few tips before you start !
Before discovering the tricks that will encourage your partner to commit seriously, I would like to give you some advice to make your task easier. First, you need to create the right atmosphere! That is, your relationship should be fun and lighthearted. Indeed, if you force things too quickly, you will completely scare him. Take a more relaxed approach. Show him that you are not a drama-loving woman who will create unnecessary arguments because she needs attention. And show her that life with you can be fun, full of surprises and very pleasant. Then, if you want your man to commit seriously, you must make him understand that he has already invested a lot in your relationship. Show him that you are not a drama queen who will create unnecessary arguments because she needs attention. And show her that life with you can be fun, full of surprises and very pleasant. Then, if you want your man to commit seriously, you must make him understand that he has already invested a lot in your relationship.Time, money and even a part of himself… And you can also ask him to do a little more to make you happy. Why? Quite simply because the more he will make efforts, the more he will invest. And the more a man invests himself, the less he wants to leave. After all, he doesn’t want everything to be for nothing! Now that you know the basics, here are the 8 tips that will allow you to convince your partner (unconsciously) to commit.
1. Put your needs before theirs !
If he hasn’t made a serious commitment to you yet, there’s absolutely no reason for you to put his needs ahead of yours. You’re still your own person and you don’t have to Act like you owe him something. You shouldn’t have to bend over backwards for a guy who hasn’t followed through on his commitment to you. He will only see you as needy and pathetic.
2. Get involved but keep some mystery:
Don’t give him everything right away. Keep your reservations and do not reveal all your cards. After all, if you tell him everything, reveal your secrets to him, and become intimate with him, there will be nothing left for him to discover. Stall him a bit! If you play your cards right, he’ll want to keep coming back for more. It’s a bit of a bluff! In fact, you need to show him enough to get him interested in you, but not too much to pique his curiosity.
3. Don’t be too available:
What is rare is expensive ! Well, I’m not comparing you to a marchandise, but that’s kinda the idea. If you are too available for him, he will not need to chase you since you are ALWAYS there for him.
As humans, we are more likely to want the things we cannot have. And if you make him feel like you won’t always be available to him, he’ll appreciate the times when you give him some attention.
4. Don’t care too much about him:
Don’t run after him! Don’t show him that you are madly in love. In short, don’t worry about him. Of course, you must let him know that you are attracted to him. But don’t overdo it! Indeed, he must be aware that he must make efforts to conquer your heart and that he cannot take you for granted.
5. Don’t be so enthusiastic about talking about engagement with him:
Don’t constantly talk about commitment. And do not insist on obtaining validation from him. You want to take another step in your relationship… OK! Talk to him and then leave him alone. The more he sees that you want him to commit to you, the less likely he will be. He doesn’t want to be told what to do. Let him think and weigh the pros and cons. Then, wait for him to make the decision on his own.
6. Be particularly charming with his relatives:
Sometimes you have to put the odds on your side. To do this, you must use all your charm to seduce his family and friends. Thus, if his entourage appreciates you and gives him compliments about you, he will obtain an unconscious validation which will push him to commit more easily. Indeed, his entourage will encourage him not to miss such a chance in love and voila!
7. Make plans that don’t include it:
Make sure you miss him. Indeed, you must make plans with your friends or even alone. In short, do not constantly invite him to join you! Make your little life on your side, show him that you can be happy without his presence in your life. In short, make him understand that he is very lucky to have you by being away from time to time. This way, he will know that your presence in his life is very important to him.
8. Keep all your options open:
Sometimes you risk scaring a man off by putting too much pressure on him. So if he still thinks your arrangement is casual, act casual for now. Does he need time to decide to commit? No worries… Let him get used to it and keep all your options open. Go out with your friends and accept a drink with a handsome stranger. Then watch your partner’s reaction. A little jealousy doesn’t hurt! But, be careful… Do not overdo it!