How to Ask Your Crush Out

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Are you scared to ask your loved one to spend some time with you? Don’t worry, you are not alone in this situation. You feel vulnerable, you are afraid. The problem is, if you don’t try, you’ll never know. Before you start, read these few tips. Then go for it!

1. Don’t wait too long :

The hardest part isn’t doing it, it’s getting started. Waiting too long presents a multitude of risks. The person you want may find someone while you’re figuring out whether to go for it or not. Or maybe you will end up resigning yourself. Believe it, the best thing to do is to take a chance.

2. Do not plan: nothing ever goes as planned:

We’ve all done it: imagine the scene on a loop. What words to say, what attitude to take, where, how… We all tend to set the scene when it comes to seducing someone we have a crush on. However, it is best to let things go. Nothing ever goes as planned, so let yourself go.

3. Choose the right moment:

Timing is everything, especially when it comes to a first date. Avoid asking her when she’s with a group of friends or at work, it’s the best way to deal with a refusal. Instead, wait until he/she is alone and more open to discussion.

4. Don’t be afraid to hear “NO”:

There is a risk that your proposal will fall through. Yes, it is possible that the person you love will say no to you. So what ? You will have something to be proud of. Unlike everyone else, you will have dared to face your fear. Take this failure the other way around and see it as a success.

5. Be yourself:

This is undoubtedly the most important point. Do not be afraid to be yourself and to express your feelings. The first instinct when we like someone is to try to show off and highlight all their qualities to show that we are worthy of being in their life. Exactly the opposite should be done. Don’t try to be someone else just to seduce.Show the person that you are interested in them and their life, their passions… Be honest and open. Then if the current does not pass, you will have a little more experience. You have everything to gain.

6. Be original:

Why not organize a first date from a new angle? Forget the restaurant or the cinema, far too classic to make anyone dream. Why not just go for a leisurely walk in the evening? Or why not cook a meal together, to get to know each other a little more? Try to make this moment unique, so that it promises a relationship that is just as special.

7. Exchange looks and smile at the person:

This tells the person that you’re interested in them and gives them the opportunity to express their agreement by returning your smile. The person is probably not interested if they look away or don’t smile. However, it could also mean that she is too shy to respond to your advance. So you shouldn’t give up right away.


Try to have a good introduction when you ask someone out. This will not only give you a better chance of landing a date, but it will also increase your confidence, which will show in your behavior. Know the clues. Some people are too nice and don’t dare say no to you outright. They will say that they don’t have time or that they are not free. The person probably isn’t interested in you if they tell you they don’t have time, without trying to offer you another date.

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